I do sometimes get disillusioned with charities. I follow a few - especially, but not restricted to, stroke charities, especially since my own brush with stroke.
In my professional life, I worked with a variety of clients and, basically, you negotiated as good a deal as you could. But there was no "career ladder", for example. I think the high water mark for me was £800/day, about £100/hour, even this was several years ago so I would expect, in today's money, it'd be even more. With this in mind, therefore, I pretty much consider that the biggest donation I could possibly make to a charity is my time.
But I see ads on tv (lots and lots of them!) and posts on social media, and I appear very much to be in the minority. There's lots of fun runs, for example, but they're all quite thinly-veiled sponsored events, basically aimed at generating cash. Exactly as I used to do on a sponsored walk, say, when I was 10 years old. It's pretty clear, both in terms of the thrust of the adverts, and also where the recognition happens (so-and-so is a star because they raised £10000, say), that the main driver for a lot of charity work is to get hold of your cash. Not your time, but your cash.
Don't get me wrong. Money is a great enabler. With more cash, the charities can do more. I know all about being enabled as the money I earned from my job enabled me to visit five-star hotels and restaurants, to happily head to the Mediterranean for wonderful holidays, and to drive around in a Porsche 911. So I know how, when you start off with a bundle of cash, nice things can follow.
But cash is only ever a means to an end.The ultimate goal of a charity is nothing to do wish cash, it is to help people.
I'm not speaking out of sour grapes - these comments are really just an observation. I'm not speaking because the charity work that I do goes pretty much unnoticed - in fact I have always shunned the limelight and wouldn't really want it any other way, plus by the people who are important to me, it isn't unnoticed. My goal in my charity work is to do what little I can to help people who've recently been touched by stroke to rationalise what has happened to them, and in that respect, the charity itself is an "enabler", enabling me to go onto the ward and speak to people. Plus, of course, my efforts only amount to an hour or so every fortnight, so one could hardly accuse me of working tirelessly! Indeed, my metric is, and has always been, whether my visits benefit the actual patients or relatives - so in that respect, any goals that the charity night have as regards fund raising are incidental to me. Quite simply, if I didn't think I was helping people in some way, then I wouldn't bother. There is a certain vulgarity about asking people for money.
It's ironic, really, because my greater experiences in this area (I'd never have registered all these things until I actually started getting involved myself) make it less likely that I will donate to charities. I did donate to Amnesty International a few years ago, and they just used the event to just harangue me for more and more money. If my wife is no longer with us, then my will specifies that my estate will go to the welfare of my animals, and I'm still happy with that arrangement.
BEFORE YOU START: Please note that although I currently volunteer for both the Stroke Association and Age UK, the views expressed in this blog are strictly my own. I am not a spokesperson for either (or, indeed, for any) organisation, and I accept complete responsibility for the views expressed herein. I've tried to use the Glossary to explain any ambiguous terms, but if you think there is anything I've missed, please message me.